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it hasn't been hard keeping ourselves busy.

with work and our remaining son,

we have plenty on our hands.

what has been hard is accepting the fact that for a time

we had always just been three and

realizing that it may just be that way is another.

a lot has changed in the last 8 months.

most of it are changes within us.

most are for the good.

and some we still work out to change to be better.

somehow, what happened to us

changed the pace of our lives.

it changed our perspective of life.

of family.

of friends.

of love.